Duffy just opened up about being help hostage in a tell-all Instagram post

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The 'Mercy' star has opened up about her ordeal in the hope it'll help someone else going through similar.

You’ll know her for her hit pop song ‘Mercy’ and iconic Twiggy-esque 60’s hair, but what you may not know about singer Duffy is the tragic ordeal she faced at the hands of an attacker.

The Grammy award-winning artist took to social media on Tuesday to reveal that at the height of her success, she was drugged, held captive and raped after being kidnapped by an attacker. This come the same week as Harvey Weinstein was found guilty of rape and we covered his ‘Silence Breakers’ reacting to the verdict and touching on the ongoing #MeToo movement.

Admitting that her ‘recovery took time’, she stressed that ‘you can only imagine the amount of times I thought about writing [the share-all Instagram post].’

The 35-year-old singer, who’s full name is Aimee Anne Duffy, shared with her 33,000 followers: ‘Many of you wonder what happened to me, where did I disappear to and why.’

‘The truth is, and please trust me I am ok and safe now, I was raped and drugged and held captive over some days… There’s no light way to say it. But I can tell you in the last decade, the thousands and thousands of days I committed to wanting to feel the sunshine in my heart again, the sun does now shine.’

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You can only imagine the amount of times I thought about writing this. The way I would write it, how I would feel thereafter. Well, not entirely sure why now is the right time, and what it is that feels exciting and liberating for me to talk. I cannot explain it. Many of you wonder what happened to me, where did I disappear to and why. A journalist contacted me, he found a way to reach me and I told him everything this past summer. He was kind and it felt so amazing to finally speak. The truth is, and please trust me I am ok and safe now, I was raped and drugged and held captive over some days. Of course I survived. The recovery took time. There’s no light way to say it. But I can tell you in the last decade, the thousands and thousands of days I committed to wanting to feel the sunshine in my heart again, the sun does now shine. You wonder why I did not choose to use my voice to express my pain? I did not want to show the world the sadness in my eyes. I asked myself, how can I sing from the heart if it is broken? And slowly it unbroke. In the following weeks I will be posting a spoken interview. If you have any questions I would like to answer them, in the spoken interview, if I can. I have a sacred love and sincere appreciation for your kindness over the years. You have been friends. I want to thank you for that x Duffy Please respect this is a gentle move for me to make, for myself, and I do not want any intrusion to my family. Please support me to make this a positive experience.

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She also shared that, in the following weeks she’ll be taking part in a spoken interview where she goes into more detail of what exactly happened to her that night, and asks for respect at this time, stressing that it’s ‘a gentle move for me to make, for myself, and I do not want any intrusion to my family. Please support me to make this a positive experience.’

The artist shot to fame with her first album Rockferry, which reached the number one top spot in six countries, scooped three Brit Awards and a Grammy and reached platnium seven times.

Eleri Butler of Welsh Women’s Aid told BBC Radio Wales Breakfast with Claire Summers that Duffy’s decision to reveal her ordeal was a ‘strong, courageous and powerful statement’.

She added: ‘It’s really difficult to speak out… for some women it’s the right time to talk many years after the experience, and for some it’s never the right time.’

Duffy’s followers were quick to support the singer, sharing shock and sadness but mainly relief that the singer is now safe and finally in a stage of healing.  @gabyroslin said: ‘Sending you even more sunshine. May your heart be bursting with only love and sunshine from now on. You are a strong, beautiful woman and may you receive only kindness from now on ’ and @messiahkaeto added: ‘This has legit blown my mind. This is someone who is brave. This is someone who is admirable. I genuinely cannot even begin to imagine the pain and suffering but the fact the sun is shining again is inspirational.’

Don’t struggle alone. Be sure to call The Samaritans if you’re feeling down, depressed, suicidal or in need of help. They’re there to help whenever you may need a hand. Simply call 116 123.

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