Wednesday, 30 September 2020

June Sarpong: 'I'm challenging white people to lead the change'

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June Sarpong explains why when it comes to inclusion everyone must play their part but white people can have the maximum impact

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An era-defining and unstoppable movement was unleashed this year, outraged by the shocking and horrific killing of George Floyd at the hands of police officers in the USA, the Black Lives Matter movement spread from the States right across the world. Finally all shades of people were exposed, through the lens of a cameraphone, to the brutality of systemic racism. June Sarpong, broadcaster, author and BBC director of creative diversity confronts systemic racism head on in her latest book, The Power Of PrivilegeJune reveals why she’s making it her mission to educate powerful privileged white people what they can do to bring about positive change.

Challenging opinions on racism

Opinions about the wider severity of racism will usually depend on proximity and exposure. Generally, white people in majority-white countries will have had limited exposure to racism. Black people, especially from lower socioeconomic groups, will have had direct experience of it and a more pronounced view of its severity and prevalence. However, witnessing the same incident through the same mobile-phone lens meant that the racism experienced by black Americans suddenly became a visual reality for white people. There was no escaping it. There is no justification or narrative to present the killing as accidental or in some way caused by Floyd.

The full implications of white privilege were cemented by that murder and video coming only 24 hours after the circulation of another video. This one depicted Amy Cooper, a white woman, threatening to call the police on Christian Cooper (no relation), a black birdwatcher in New York’s Central Park. All he had done was ask her to put a leash on her dog, which was running free in an area of the park where that was prohibited. As she grew increasingly annoyed at his request and the fact he was videoing her response, she called the police, intimating to them that a black man was threatening her. This is the latest in a long line of white women weaponising their fear of black men. And it leads all the way back to 1955 and a 14-year-old Emmett Till, who was lynched after being accused of whistling at Carolyn Bryant.

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The Black Lives Matter movement became a global protest this year (Getty Images)


Threatening black people’s very existence

As the killing of Floyd the day after the Cooper incident demonstrated, interactions between the police and black people in the States are fraught with danger. Floyd did not resist arrest, instead doing everything he would have been taught to minimize his chances of being hurt, but he still ended up dead. And this is the reality for many black people, and why the issue goes much deeper than a few bad apples. If you are black, a white person has the power to threaten your very existence.

The subsequent demonstrations and civil disturbances have forced a very public conversation about race in which white people have had to play an active part. Normally these conversations are reserved for cultural celebrations, such as Black History Month, with white people taking a more passive role. But there is now an acknowledgement, especially amongst younger generations, that racism is pervasive and the responsibility to address it lies with majority white populations.

It’s no longer just a marginal, unseen issue for people of colour. The footage of both events coming so close together left no room for ambiguity about the reality of racism –and it became clear that it is a problem for white people too.

Engaging and not blaming 

Admittedly, when we talk about ways to increase diversity, we don’t immediately think of straight white males. They are often viewed as the source of the problem more than part of the solution, with tags like ‘pale, male and stale’. Yes, much of the inequality we see has been the design of a small, elite group of mainly straight white men, whether that be in western society or former colonies.

But a shared identity doesn’t have to mean identical views or collective guilt, rather an opportunity to join a conversation. One of the main stumbling blocks towards greater inclusion is the inability to effectively engage those who are currently the most catered for in a discussion around inclusion and widening participation.

Yes, some of the most affluent members of this group have used their power to marginalise or exploit those whom they deemed as ‘other’, today and in the past. However, if we want this power and agency to be shared more widely and equitably, without conflict or casualties, then a productive dialogue needs to happen. A conversation with the focus on honesty and acceptance rather than guilt and blame.


Moving out of your comfort zone

Having spent the best part of the last four years researching, writing and then speaking about the benefits of diversity for society, the one question that keeps being asked by white people, often men, is: ‘I know I am seen as the main cause of the problem, but what can I do?’

I’d been toying with the idea for some time of writing about privileged people who want to create change and an incident at a diversity dinner I hosted made me realise there was an urgent need.

I’d been asked by a major consulting firm to lead an unconscious-bias training dinner for their senior employees and high-level clients. At my table, there was a young, white professional couple whom I really bonded with. I was waxing lyrical about the importance of workplace targets and goals as the quickest means of levelling the playing field. As I continued talking about race, class and gender, I sensed the husband’s increasing discomfort with my views. This wasn’t necessarily a problem; the whole point was for us to move outside of our comfort zones.

I wanted to make sure I understood his viewpoint in order to figure out a way to include him, and people like him, in my conversations around equality. What he said struck me and has stayed with me. Even with his discomfort, he was still eager to know how he could help in creating change. He also wanted to understand if there was a place for him in the conversation: ‘How do we move from accusation to conversation? That I’m not made to feel like I’m on trial because I am white and male?’

That evening was a powerful moment of revelation for me and confirmed there was a need to write in a balanced, meaningful way about what white people in positions of power and privilege can do to bring about positive change.

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June Sarpong’s The Power Of Privilege is on sale now

Breaking our silence on that meritocracy fable 

The prevailing story we are all told is one of hard-fought battles for equality and an arc towards justice and greater meritocracy. Not a perfect arc but one that’s improving. The experiences of people of colour, especially those who are socially disadvantaged, meant this story was long ago discarded as a fable. Others who have made some progress in a white world buy into the story but see it as aspirational rather than literal. They are careful not to challenge it to avoid the potential cost of rocking the boat.

Now, the naked brutality of the treatment of black people has caused people of colour to break their silence, tired of playing along with the official story. Many white people are also outraged and marching with people of colour, demanding a fair and meritocratic society be delivered. But white people who have excelled under the current system also have to come to terms with the reality that they are the ones who have prospered from systemic racism.

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Meet the woman on a mission to inspire the next female leaders

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Author, entrepreneur and Women Who founder Otegha Uwagba is kick-starting a new conversation around Black women and work. And it’s a game-changer.

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‘Being a woman in the workplace is inherently different to being a man and it is necessary for the world to reflect that,’ says 27-year-old Otegha Uwagba, founder of Women Who, a platform that connects and supports creative working women through its website, events and podcast. ‘It is important for women to have a place to share resources, experiences and ideas. The question is, how can we overcome obstacles together and learn from others?’ After leaving a career in advertising, Otegha Uwagba wrote Little Black Book: A Toolkit For Working Women, a career guide that became a Sunday Times bestseller. This year, Otegha Uwagba was also named on Forbes’ 30 Under 30 Europe list. Here, she shares her career lessons…

‘Use your experiences and character traits as an asset’

I’m good with people − I’m not afraid to go to events where I don’t know anyone and strike up conversations. Some people find networking difficult though, so at Women Who we run panel discussions, workshops and events to support women who need it. Face-to-face interaction is vital in the digital age.

‘Networking means being interested in other people’

Networking with a capital ‘N’ sounds intimidating but really it’s just about being curious and interested in other people. We need to change the mindset around networking − it’s not all about what you might get out of a situation, it’s a chance to learn from other people and make friends.

‘Be yourself’

Behaviour that is deemed acceptable when men display it is often not looked on as favourably for women. But that’s no reason not to use traits such as negotiation skills, self-promotion and assertiveness. Every experience − good or bad − is an opportunity to learn. The years I spent working in advertising gave me a real leg up. It helped me to understand branding and how to communicate with an audience − even creative industries still need to be run like a business. Being exposed to the nuts and bolts of negotiating deals helped me to harness the skills I use today.

‘Prepare for rejection’

Not everyone’s going to cheer for you, so be prepared for rejection and learn how to move past it. That’s the best advice my mum ever gave me. Even the most successful people in the world get rejected. Stay focused.

‘Change course when things don’t go to plan.

I was playing this game with a friend recently, talking about all the jobs we had interviewed for but didn’t get. I was rejected for a role straight out of university and was devastated at the time. I got through to the final 75 of a big graduate scheme but I ballsed up the interview. A friend landed a place on the same scheme and now has a great career, but making a direct comparison today, I know it wouldn’t have been right for me. Things turned out fine in the end.

‘Know your brand’

Building a personal brand is important and something anyone can do. I think it’s a question of really paying attention to how you are perceived and the messages you give out. Also, look at your presentation of your social-media accounts, personal website and LinkedIn. Try to evaluate yourself from somebody else’s perspective; what would they find if they were Googling you?

‘When making big career decisions, ensure you’re doing it for the right reasons, not because it’s what other people are doing. Think about what makes you happy − a pay rise, being creative, working on interesting projects. There’s a temptation to think that self-employment is the way forward because entrepreneurism is timely. It works for me, but not everyone enjoys it − your choices need to come from within.’

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Shackelia Jackson: ‘People thought I was obsessive, but that activism helped me to heal'

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Next in our Women Who Win series is Shackelia Jackson, a Jamaican human rights defender who dedicates her life to fighting against police brutality and campaigning for judicial reform



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Next in our #WomenWhoWin series is Shackelia Jackson, who refuses to give up in her quest for justice after the death of her brother, Nakiea, who was shot and killed by police in 2014. They had been searching for a ‘Rastafarian looking’ robbery suspect – Nakiea fit the description and so was shot dead in his small restaurant.

The case against the officer who shot Nakiea was dismissed in 2016, after one of the key witnesses did not attend court. According to Amnesty, he was too afraid of what might happen afterwards: in 2015, 8% of all murders committed across Jamaica were at the hands of law enforcement officials.

‘We are scared of the police, of their very presence,’ explained Shackelia.

Not only has Shackelia had to deal with her grief, she has also faced intense intimidation from the police and an unresponsive legal system.

Still, she refuses to be silenced.

Our Women Who Win interview series celebrates strong and inspirational female trailblazers, shaping the future for us all, and Shackelia Jackson and her fight for justice is that in a nutshell.

Shackelia has been fighting not just on behalf of her family, but for others in the same situation. As she puts it, ‘I became a beacon of hope’.

We sat down with Shackelia to talk about the legislative change achieved by her tireless campaigning and her hopes for the future.

What was your upbringing like?

‘I was raised in the inner-city in a large family, it was a really small community, very tight-knit. I didn’t even have a key for my house, that’s how much it was always open and accessible. It was a space of love and a space where our parents allowed us to dream: there wasn’t really any social limitations. We really represented what was right about Jamaica and could have been the model for what leaders talk about in terms of their vision for the inner city.’

How did that change after the death of your brother?

‘It wasn’t as if there was a gradual progression. We went from being this happy, safe space, where there were no feelings of vulnerability, to a very paranoid space. The community felt like prisoners.’

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What made you dedicate your life to the cause?

‘I never said, “Okay, I’m going to do this” or realised anything; I was just on autopilot. I worked every single day until my phone crashed, I tried to engage with the authorities in terms of understanding the procedure, I took a year off from school. I became a genuine servant of the process: everything I did was peripheral to this. Maybe people thought I was obsessive, but that kind of activism was helping me to heal. I was learning to take care of myself.’

What keeps you motivated?

‘I have three brothers to also live for and protect, and to ensure that if a police officer were to stop one, [they’ll] always remember that they have a Shackelia. So, unless [the police officer] is prepared to go through the process, he might not be as fortunate as the previous officer.

On a daily basis, I get phone calls and texts saying, “This is happening, I am fearful of this police officer, what can I do?” I have become a source of protection, and a source of information, who people feel will take them to a place of hope. This experience has allowed me to really own and come into my purpose. The worst really brought out the best in me.’

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What has been your biggest achievement?

‘I’ve become a better person. The need to be more socially aware and socially conscientious is often there, but we don’t do anything about it. I’ve invested in my education and I’m dreaming for a sound mind to be able to continue this process, to drive it towards the results where things are now documented and in policies, and we are holding people accountable.’

What active legislative change do you want to see?

‘I would like to see change in terms of how a crime is processed and how police officers are treated after being charged with a crime: it’s almost as if they haven’t broken the law. I’m comfortable with policy changes, but we need legislative changes that are there, on the books, to ensure accountability and transparency. The police have the same training as they did in the 1960s and it needs to evolve to suit 21st century society.’

Have you seen the effects of your work reflected in the law?

‘I’ve been told, “Your brother has saved many.” That was kind of a double-edged sword: I was happy that the writing is now on the wall but if we’re working according to policies and procedures, it should not have come to that point. It means that there are still systemic issues that need to change and promises that were not fulfilled, so we’re continuing to work towards achieving these. But [people] know there is a Shackelia now.’

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The Yankee Candle advent calendars are here and obviously they're dreamy

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Halloween is on its way, and with it comes a range of ghoulish goodies from the spooky new McVitie’s flavours and the Lush Halloween collection, to the Disney Halloween clothing range and the Hocus Pocus board game.

And that’s not all. There’s now a Yankee Candle Halloween collection so that you can fill your home with autumnal scents, from a pecan pie delight to a pumpkin offering (naturally).

But if you’re thinking further ahead and are planning to get your hands on an advent calendar, Yankee Candle has released their 2020 sets – and what a fragrant treat.

(Take a look to see if these are in the Yankee Candle Black Friday deals…)

First up there’s the Wreath Advent Calendar, a beautifully festive box filled with 24 scented tea lights in 8 different scents including Singing Carols, Snowflake Cookie, Christmas Magic, Christmas Cookie, Holiday Hearth, Surprise Snowfall, Cinnamon Stick and Vanilla French Toast. It also comes with a clear glass tea light holder, and each candle lasts for six hours.

Wreath Advent Calendar, £24.99

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Next up there’s the Book Advent Calendar, which will reveal a Votive Candle or a tea light candle every day as you count down to Christmas. Scents include Singing Carols, Holiday Hearth, Surprise Snowfall, Unwrap The Magic, Christmas Morning Punch, Christmas Cookie, Snowflake Cookie, Christmas Eve, Christmas Magic, All is Bright, Glittering Star, Cinnamon Stick, Candlelit Cabin, Red Apple Wreath and Cranberry Ice. There’s also a cute Votive Candle holder included.

Book Advent Calendar, £39.99

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With two brilliant options for advent calendars on offer, there’s something for everybody and they all look like a nice bit of festive fragrant fun.

They’re currently available online, but if you want to get your hands on one you’ll have to be quick as they’re sure to sell out.

So what are you waiting for? Go, go, go!

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‘Don’t be afraid to fail, just be a fast failure’ says Patricia Bright

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Patricia Bright was the first Black British youtuber to reach a million followers. Now a successful entrepreneur selling hair wigs and pieces for black women, she talks about how zigzagging between different jobs and industries was her recipe to success

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Patricia Bright explains how an unconventional route can be the key to achieving your goals

In 2016, LinkedIn research found that making four job changes by the time you were 32 was ‘normal’. In May 2018, an updated LinkedIn study found that for Generation Z – today’s under 24s – those four jobs had already happened. So, how do you turn an unconventional start into stable success? Here, 31-year-old fashion and beauty vlogger Patricia Bright, who has a following of 2.6 million, reveals the best career tips she’s learned on the path from banker to influencer, and how starting out with nothing fuelled her drive for success.

1. Things can be taken away in an instant. Be prepared

‘I grew up in Battersea, south London, to Nigerian parents. When I was six, my dad was deported. One night, policemen came into the house and took him away while my mum pleaded and my sister and I sobbed. My dad had outstayed his student visa, but hadn’t applied for residency. It took six years to get him back. Alone, Mum could have been broken, but instead she grafted. She cleaned offices at 6am and trained as a nurse, so that she could join the NHS Staff Bank – a talent pool for temporary and part-time work. She opted for the ungodly 2am-6am shifts that pay time-and-a-half. Thanks to that, Mum invested in her first house. She proved that your past doesn’t define your future. But that showed me nothing was guaranteed, and now I don’t just have a professional Plan B – I have Plan C, D and E too. Ask yourself: if everything crumbles, what would I do? You don’t have to reinvent the wheel; consider ways to expand your earnings based on what you know. One friend makes wigs and, rather than just sell them, she set up a class where people pay hundreds of pounds to learn how to make them. I also know a graphic designer who has branched out beyond web design – she now scouts customers via social platforms and offers to curate their Instagram feeds, with font and colour styling. Even if you work nine to five, you could get a bar job on a Saturday night.’

2. If you’re going to fail, fail fast

‘My family wanted me to become a lawyer. In African immigrant families, you’re either a doctor or a lawyer because those professions give your children more academic opportunities. I’d studied A-level biology, chemistry, psychology and business studies – hardcore academia – so I went to the University of Manchester to do a fashion marketing degree as an opportunity to explore my creative dreams. I expected it to be cool to work in fashion, but I hated it. I didn’t enjoy making clothes; the only module I liked was accounting. After a year, I dropped out and switched to an accounting degree. I always say you should try something and see how it goes. If it fails, fine, but move on quickly. Don’t be afraid to fail, just be a fast failure.’

3. Challenge your self-perception

‘After my degree, a friend secured a job at investment bank Merrill Lynch. I thought that sounded great and discovered there was an internship available, but I needed 360 UCAS points to apply. Because I’d previously dropped an AS level and changed degrees, I had 280 – not even close – but my male friend said I should apply anyway. Research 
shows that men are more likely to apply for a role whether they’re qualified or not. Women, however, wait until they’re qualified or even overqualified. I felt I could do it, 
so I networked. I went to a Women in Technology event to connect with senior management and recruiters from Merrill Lynch, so they’d remember me. It worked. My application was accepted, but I failed part of the entrance exam. Somehow, they let me resit it and I got the internship. The version of me on paper wasn’t supposed to be there, 
but I hustled and made them notice me.’

‘When your side hustle is held back by your main job, that’s the time to leap’

4. It’s OK to feel like an imposter

‘In 2009, I started working at Merril Lynch as a business analyst, but I never felt confident. It took seven months for the stiff corporate culture to warm up. Then, two 
years in, I was made redundant. I felt dread. For one, I had pride in working at Merrill Lynch, but I’d also come from a graduate programme where I was almost babied through it. With that ripped away, I applied for jobs – still feeling underqualified – and moved to Deloitte, consulting for investment banks. Here, your job is to pretend you’re the expert. I remember meeting the head of Camden Council, a 50-year-old Caucasian male. There’s me, this 23-year-old, telling him that his business model is wrong and he should implement my strategy. I had no choice but to forget about my self-consciousness.’

5 .You can survive humiliation

‘I began vlogging in secret at university. I was always into beauty, and there were forums, such as Fotki [similar to Reddit], where women would share their hair journeys or make-up collections. I started doing YouTube tutorials, recording videos in the bathroom, whispering as I didn’t want my housemate to hear because I thought it would be embarrassing. It was my private hobby until an intern at Merrill Lynch picked up my camera and saw a video of me talking and said, “Look at Patricia. Why would anyone 
do that?” This was around 2011 or 2012, and I felt like a joke. Work colleagues warned me that it didn’t look good for the bank. I shut my YouTube page down for months because I was so ashamed. Even after I started vlogging full-time, I hid it from my family. When I eventually told them, my parents put it so well, saying, “You have to do what career is right for you.”

6. False starts make you stronger

‘By the time I started at Deloitte, I’d been YouTubing undercover for three years, my following was approaching 100k and I was getting vlogging work requests. But the Internet thing still felt random and it wasn’t enough to quit a solid career for. Instead, I was headhunted by MUFG, Japan’s largest bank, as a senior business analyst. 
While back in banking, I could see that YouTube was moving forwards quickly and I gained more confidence to see where it could take me. When I resigned, citing “personal reasons” because there was no way I could tell them the truth, YouTube became my full-time profession. Well, for three weeks – until I panicked, got cold feet and joined a digital company called Base79 for three months, consulting for brands on how to use YouTube. In a weird way, I needed this false start at an online media company to see the real potential of my channel. I said to myself, you need to go full throttle, put your foot down and do this. Mike Lewis, who wrote When To Jump, about people switching careers, calls it ‘the 10,000 unsexy steps’ you’ll make while chasing your dream job. It’s easy to get so caught up with planning a leap that you never actually do it – it’s called analysis paralysis. But when your side hustle is held back by your main job, that’s the time to leap. To help: invest in your decision. Even putting £10 towards something vital flicks a switch in your brain that says, “If you don’t follow through, the person it will burn is you.”’

7. Confidence comes and grows with putting in the hours

‘Lack of confidence affects everyone. But the number of hours you put into something makes a big difference. If you want to become more confident, you have to apply yourself. I’ve got over 1,700 videos and, taking into account the ones I’ve deleted, I’ve probably filmed 3,000. So, why am I confident on camera? Practice. In my first job, I wasn’t confident. My second job forced me to become confident. Third job, I knew what I was doing because I’d put in the hours. Today, I feel fully in control. Trust yourself. And, more than that, trust your trajectory – whatever it might look like.’

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'As long as Black women are involved, real change will come'

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In honour of Black History Month, British New York political commentator and businesswoman Lola Adesioye, explains why 2020 is the year for positive change - and how black women are leading the charge

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When I came to America in 2007, I was both consciously and subconsciously looking for a place where I would feel more seen and heard as a Black woman. I may have grown up in the UK, but the vast majority of the people I looked up to  – from Martin Luther King to Oprah Winfrey – were African American.  Each time I visited, I grew, evolved and felt more rooted in myself.  I loved it when men would call out ‘hey sister’ to me on the street – something which never happened in London, where, like many other Black women, I often felt invisible to the mostly white men in my surroundings.
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Writer and broadcaster Lola Adesioye

America was the closest I could get to living amongst Black people without staying permanently in Africa (my parents are from Nigeria). In the UK,  I was tired of being the only Black girl everywhere I went. Tired of having to grit my teeth when people made jokes about how I was ‘different’ from other black people because of my Cambridge University education. Or when bosses subtly tried to portray me as the angry black girl or made comments about how I was too ambitious. I could feel the UK’s often-unspoken class, race and gender issues directly affecting my life yet was frustrated by how Brits would pretend that none of those issues really existed.

‘What I found in America was a level of racism and discrimination that went deeper than I could ever have expected’

When I came to the States as a writer and blogger, Barack Obama was running for office and one summer’s day, I accidentally stumbled on a rally of his in New York’s Washington Square Park. As I watched him in action and looked at the variety of people at that rally, I knew that something groundbreaking was happening and I was determined to be part of it.
And yet, what I found in America was a level of racism and discrimination that went deeper than I could ever have expected. Racism is the foundation of this country and it permeates it at every level. Very soon after I arrived, news arrived of the shooting by police of a young man called Sean Bell who was killed the night before his wedding in a hail of bullets in his car. Every year since, there have been more killings. Oscar Grant. Eric Garner. Trayvon Martin, Sandra Bland to name just a few. This year: George Floyd, Breonna Taylor, Ahmaud Arbery, Elijah McClain. Then most recently: Jacob Blake.

‘I’m not sure that some of this year’s events have been that different from what Black people in America have seen before’

It would be an understatement to say that 2020 has been a year to remember. However, I’m not sure that some of this year’s events have been that different from what Black people in America have seen before. There have always been Black deaths at the hands of people who have no respect for Black life. Black people have always faced prejudice and discrimination here; structural racism has been a factor in American life since its inception. But against the backdrop of the Covid-19 pandemic –which has affected a disproportionate number of people of colour – the issues have been brought into sharper focus. The intense impact of racism is that much harder to ignore. Its arms are long-reaching: from health, to economics, to encounters with law enforcement and the criminal justice system, to politics.

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And yet despite all this, one thing Black people have definitely always done is to fight for our rights. We should not have to, but we do. And we do it well. Last month, as I reflected on 100 years since the passing of the US 19th Amendment which gave women the right to vote, I thought about the historical realities of the Black woman’s fight for change. I thought about the discrimination and exclusion within the women’s suffrage movement itself, how black women were not allowed to be part of The National American Woman Suffrage Association. So, we formed our own suffrage groups. There was also division about what was most important: white women were primarily concerned with gender parity, while Black women knew that voting rights were also an essential part of confronting both racism and gender discrimination. So, we continued to fight for voter rights.

Even after the passing of the 19th Amendment, states still found various ways to disenfranchise Black voters. It wasn’t really until the passing of the 1965 Voters Rights Act – again coming about in large measure due to the actions of a nation-wide coalition of black women – that this subsided somewhat. Even today, as President Trump and his cronies continue to find ways to disenfranchise black voters, Black women say no.

‘If black women have anything to do with it, change will come’

The truth is that Black women have constantly and consistently led the charge for true democracy in America. The list of black female change-makers is long even if we don’t hear about these women every day. And, if we look at today’s Black Lives Matter movement it is women at the forefront.

Is Kamala Harris, the now Vice Presidential nominee, a sign of substantive change? Perhaps so. The symbolic nature of her vice presidential nomination is important, but ultimately what matters most is whether or not she can effect change which positively impacts the lives of women and people of colour in America. She and Biden seem to suggest a willingness and I’m excited to see whether or not they can deliver.

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Vice Presidential nominee, Kamala Harris

I have only lived in America for 13 years but I have embraced it and it has embraced me. I might not be “African American” but I am a Black woman who is deeply invested in this country and who intends to spend the rest of my life here. I am hoping that means one day a family, and one day Black children. I care about my Black American brothers and sisters  now more than ever. I’ve never seen so many Black Lives Matter signs and murals, on walls, in windows and everywhere. But, it’s real change I really want to see. One thing I know for sure though… if black women have anything to do with it, and we continue to put in the work as we have always done, that change will come.

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You can now stay in this magical cottage and it's perfect for Potterheads

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Potterheads have been kept busy during the lockdown with a virtual Harry Potter escape room, 3,000 piece Harry Potter puzzles and the audiobooks of celebrities narrating The Philosopher’s Stone.

But now restrictions have eased and many people are booking staycations, guess what? There’s now availability at a Harry Potter inspired cottage – so you can start planning your next getaway.

The North Shire in Liverton, North Yorkshire, has a number of cottages fit for wizarding world folk and muggles alike. From cottages that emulate the Gryffindor Common Room to one for the Grounds Keepers (aka the Hagrid fans), you’ll be absolutely spoilt for choice.

Their dorm room is available for groups of six with single four poster beds and a huge fire place to keep you warm as the temperatures dip. There are also stained glass windows and flickering candles for that extra dollop of magic.

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As it’s self catering, there’s a kitchen to whip up your favourite spellbinding suppers, and a private bathroom with a gold double sink and ‘a very special surprise feature’.

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There’s a minimum booking of two nights, and prices start at £300.

If you’d rather a generally magical holiday, the Grounds Keepers cottage has two bedrooms and includes a beautiful brass free standing bath, as well as a living room with medieval turrets and stained glass windows to replicate the gothic feel of your favourite wizarding tales.

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Credit: The North Shire

The doorway is also lit by lanterns and there are stunning views as it’s surrounded by green fields that will take you to views of the Yorkshire coast. Wonderful.

Obviously, it’s going to get booked up *very* quickly – no surprises there – so if you want to stay at this dreamy Harry Potter inspired accommodation you’ll have to secure your spot ASAP.

So come on, what are you waiting for? Get booking!

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Back in July, I shared how I finally started taking care of myself the way my mind and body deserve. As a result, I’m less stressed, less anxious, sleeping better, eating healthier than ever, my aches and pains are gone, and I’ve even lost some weight.

Here are the specific things I’ve changed in order to prioritize self-care in my daily life:

Face masks, cathedrals and loungewear: a Paris Fashion Week like no other

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Fashion month has almost come to a close, and if the new hybrid New York Fashion Week, London and Milan Fashion Week proved anything, it’s that even a pandemic cannot quell the creative spirit of fashion designers. Over in Paris, the spring/summer collections carry on being unveiled as planned, albeit with a few face coverings and tracksuits thrown in. Read on for the highlights from the week.

Maria Grazia Chiuri built a cathedral

PFW kicked off in grand style with the Dior spring-summer 2021 ready-to-wear show, with the designer creating a backdrop of stained glass windows in a Gothic style cathedral. For her new collection, Maria Grazia Chiuri took inspiration from the work of Lucia Marcucci (‘an emblematic figure of the Italian avant-garde who designed the show’s scenography).

Her aesthetics of collage and visual poetry were apparent in the patchworks of paisley and floral motifs, punctuated with lace fragments, and jewel tones of lilac, orange and ochre. Fluid dresses mixed in with soft kimonos and wide leg trousers for a collection that is the comfortable and stylish wardrobe the post-pandemic woman wants to wear.

Kenzo made hazmat suits look cool

There were bound to be stylish takes on protective gear this season, and Kenzo did not disappoint. Models were sent down the (outdoor) runway in elevated beekeeping hats and veils that matched their colourful outfits and bold prints. Creative director Felipe Oliveira Baptista wanted to illustrate the relationship between human and nature, telling Vogue, ‘Bees are the regulators of the world. I find this idea very reassuring; both poetic and positive’.

Cecilie Bahnsen created a wardrobe for the modern nomad

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‘This season I had an image in my mind of a woman on a journey across a landscape – a symbolic wanderer,’ Cecilie said in her show notes. As such, her Spring Summer 2021 collection delivered the usual romance and moodiness we’ve come to expect, but with a twist.

Old styles (the open-back dress) were updated with new details, while new shapes were introduced in the form of an off-the-shoulder balloon shape statement sleeve. Dresses were styled over transparent ribbed knitwear and masculine tailoring, to ease them into everyday wear: relaxed but feminine was the name of the game. We also loved the label’s use of recycled fabrics, such as cashmere knit and faille.

Keep scrolling for more favourite looks from the runway too.

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This fashion brand is setting the sustainable tone

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This fashion month has been one like no other, with the pandemic forcing designers to think harder about creating pieces that transcend trends are are kinder to the planet.

But of course this is not a new conversation, but as we become more aware of the environmental impact of our shopping habits, more and more of us are turning to sustainable fashion brands where we can, shopping less but better.

On such label is KALITA, a London-based resortwear created by Kalita Al Swaidi. Here she talks us through her new collection, and explains how she tackles sustainable fashion.

Your collections started off as resortwear, are you trying to evolve more into everyday wear?

Yes we are indeed – the brand started off as resort wear due to the K A L I T A dramatic silhouette, however, I feel that this silhouette in a more pared down way is just as relevant in everyday wear as it is in resort wear – perhaps, even more so.

Where do you get your inspiration from?

Our new collection Mesopotamia was inspired by the land, sand and sea. With ecology and sustainability at its heart, I set out to create a collection that is not only born from nature but emulates it in the movement of the fabric.

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Your designs can be worn by any body shape, is this a conscious decision?

Absolutely, I was particularly excited about the Pegasi gown in this collection which is one size… I think women are beautiful in all shapes and sizes and the concept of a size can be so upsetting for women that to move away from it completely is exceptionally freeing.

Can you tell us more about your sustainable ethos?

Sustainability has been a passion of mine since the very start, all our packaging is recycled, the ‘plastic’ we use is made from corn oil and is biodegradable, our tags our recycled polyester threads and then most excitingly with the launch of our new website earlier this year we are now able to use the left over fabric to make knicker sets and limited edition runs of our dresses. We are also working on a secret project which is 100 percent recycled and made from plastic bottles – I will tell you more at the end of the year!

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Do you see fashion shifting towards being more sustainable?

I think it is a natural evolution and also the focus on philanthropy – we try to give 10 percent of proceeds to a philanthropic cause every month, for the last two months it was to the Blue Marine foundation to support our oceans and overfishing and this month it is to aid the Lebanon crisis through a charity called Preemptive Love.

You always donate part of your proceeds to charity, how do you pick them?

We pick charities that speak to us as a team – whether they be conservation based or on a more human level. My favourite time of the year is December when we are able to help charity Christmas and enable those who are alone on this day to be with others and enjoy a festive lunch or dinner – loneliness is something that speaks so many volumes to me and I feel is such an unheard tragedy of spirit.

What are your plans for the brand?

We are enjoying working on our sustainable projects as well as excited about the upcoming new collections – watch this space.

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Yankee Candle Black Friday: Scent-sational deals you won't want to miss

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Yankee Candle Black Friday – the deals you need to know about

Yankee Candle have launched some incredible products this year, from the Sunday brunch collection to the Halloween and autumn range (which, FYI, includes dreamy Pumpkin and pecan pie scents).

But the iconic candle pros aren’t stopping there. There’s a lot of fun to be had with their advent calendars, crammed with goodies that boast a range of fun and festive notes as well as gorgeous accessories including a candle holder to complete your growing set.

As Black Friday approaches, you’re probably wondering if you’ll be able to buy your favourites at a discounted price – and the good news is, you can.

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Here’s everything you need to know about the scent-sational 2020 deals…

When is the Yankee Candle Black Friday sale?

Black Friday 2020 kicks off on Friday 27th November, when a number of top brands and retailers including Topshop, Morphe and ASOS offer customers huge discounts on their products. Whether you’re looking for the Black Friday best winter boots or Black Friday watch deals, you’ll find what you need at a reduced price and it’s no different for Yankee Candle.

Last year, there were cost cuts on their Large Jars, gift sets and new products, including an 11 piece set complete with various sized jars, votive candles and holders which was reduced from £72 to just £30. Bargain.

Where can I find the Yankee Candle Black Friday deals?

We will continue to update you as deals come through, so make sure you bookmark this page and check back in so you don’t miss anything!

What is included in the Yankee Candle Black Friday offers?

Yankee Candle deals aren’t currently available, but they are selling some absolute gems right now that we’re really hoping will crop up in the sale!

Here are some of our favourite scents that we have our eyes on…

A Night Under The Stars Large Jar, £23.99

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This large candle is a woody, spicy scent combining rose, leather, and driftwood notes with clove, saffron and patchouli.

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Sea Salt and Lavender Large 2-Wick Square Candle, £23.99

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A soft lavender and refreshing sea salt combination, it has notes of coconut and pear blossom, figwood and vanilla bean, with two wicks to increase the fragrance.

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Personalised Yankee Candle, £24.99

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Pick your size, scents and personalised design. The perfect gift for that special someone!

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Savoy – Purple Crackle Jar Candle Holder, £19.99

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This elegant jar holder is the perfect accessory for your next candle, and will absolutely add that extra something.

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Book Advent Calendar Gift Set, £39.99

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There’s a votive candle or scented tea light behind every door, including some signature scents and festive favourites to get you excited for the most wonderful time of the year.

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Which of these would you like to see in the biggest sale of the year?

We will keep you updated as the deals come in.

Make sure you check back so you don’t miss them!

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